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Great Ideas for 21st Birthday Speeches

Turning 21 is a milestone birthday, and one that gathers together friends and family to celebrate their loved one. The most memorable part of the birthday party is often the speeches. Anecdotal and humorous, they should share and reflect upon the delightful and distinctive characteristics of the birthday boy or girl. The speeches should start when all the guests are assembled, relaxed and fed, with a libation in hand for toasts.

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A 21st birthday speech should be engaging and make the audience laugh. Include some humorous anecdotes about things the birthday person did as a child and share some embarrassing -- but not mean -- stories from his school years. The audience will relax and warm to you and the guest of honor will likely take the ribbing in stride. Don't include overtly crude or inappropriate stories that the birthday person has told you in confidence, no matter how funny they are. Keep your humor gentle and good natured.

Achievements

Reflect on the birthday person's accomplishments. Select a few achievements that she is proud of and worked hard for. A 21-year-old is likely to have met some educational or career goals, and these are great topics to mention. Also, praise her qualities and personality traits that you find most endearing. If you've spent a minute making fun of the person, spend at least a minute building her up again and sharing what she means to you personally.

Pictures and Videos

If you can obtain an appropriate projector, show some photos of the birthday person. You can use them in your speech for comedic effect by synchronizing your speech to a slideshow or contrasting your words of praise with pictures exemplifying the opposite. Or show clips of funny home videos of childhood scenes to offer glimpses into the birthday person's history that few people would have seen. Don't let videos run for too long. Get help from a pro to edit the clips into a brief show, perhaps with a comedic title for each vignette.

Keep It Short

Twenty-first birthday speeches should be short and sweet. Party attendees won't appreciate a speech that's too long. Don't test the audience's patience by talking for more than a few minutes, especially if multiple speakers will take the floor. Prepare and practice your speech beforehand so you know how long it takes to deliver. Write it out word for word or have some notes to keep you on track. A funny, short speech is much better than one that overstays its welcome.

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75 Amazing 21st Birthday Messages for Your Daughter

Here is a list of 75 amazing 21st birthday messages for your daughter on her milestone birthday.

#1 To my daughter: I am so proud of all of your hard work, your generous spirit, and your positive attitude. I just know you will do big things in this world. Happy 21st birthday.

#2 Wishing my daughter the best 21st birthday ever. From the day you were born, you have made my world a better place. I could never have imagined I would be so lucky as a parent. Thank you for all you have given to me these past 21 years. You have all of my love.

#3 Happy 21st birthday, Daughter! You are the center of my world and the light that fills up every single day. Thank you for being wonderful, beautiful you.

#4 May our sweet daughter have the greatest 21st birthday ever! What a light you are in our lives. We could never have asked for or imagined a better you. Our hope for you is that you continue to be true to yourself and be grounded in who you are. This world is already a better place because you are in it. We look forward to seeing you shine ever more brightly in the coming years.

#5 Happy 21st birthday, to our amazing daughter. Thank you so much for being you. We have been truly honored to watch you grow and become a light to everyone who knows you. Let your light continue to shine brightly as you make your path in this world. We love you so much.

#6 Happy 21st birthday, to the daughter who makes the sun shine with her laughter. You make our world complete.

#7 21 years ago, a very special daughter was born to us. You have left your footprints on our souls, and for that, we are forever grateful to you. We are so proud of all you’ve accomplished and are thankful we are your parents. Happy birthday!

#8 Daughter, for 21 years we have had the great joy of watching you grow up to become a wonderful, caring, and intelligent young woman. We are so proud of who you have become and we are looking forward to watching the wonderful things you will do in your life. Near or far, we will always be here for you and love you more than life itself. Happy birthday.

#9 I am so appreciative to have such a one-of-a-kind daughter. On your 21st birthday, I hope that you receive all that life has to offer to someone as thoughtful as you are. You’re a shining light in the lives of everyone who is lucky enough to know you. Happy birthday!

#10 Happy 21st birthday, to the smartest, silliest, most clever daughter I could ever hope for. Every day, you make my life complete. I love you to the moon and back.

#11 Happiest of birthdays to an exceptionally spectacular daughter. Now that you are 21, you are a young adult and continue to be an example to all. Never change. You are simply magnetic.

#12 Happy 21st birthday, to a very special daughter. Every day watching you grow up has been the great joy in our lives and we are so proud of you. Once upon a time, you needed us so much, and now you are a grown woman. We hope we can continue to be there for you through the highs and lows that life will bring you. You are our everything. We love you eternally and unconditionally.

#13 To an exceptional daughter on her 21st birthday, congratulations! Your big day is here, and no one is more deserving of such a fantastic occasion than you. You’re the most down-to-earth and compassionate person I know and I’m so thankful for that. Have a spectacular time and please please be careful out there! Happy birthday!

#14 Congratulations on turning 21, my treasured daughter. Every parent ever wishes for a daughter just like you. You are so cherished and loved. Happy birthday, I hope that you have a day that is just as extraordinary as you are.

#15 Sending my best wishes to an outstanding daughter on her 21st birthday. You have always been so dedicated, courageous and brave. It is a privilege to watch you grow up to become such an impressive young woman. Enjoy your day. You deserve it!

#16 Loving wishes on your 21st birthday, daughter. You are admired and loved by so many people because you are absolutely extraordinary. I hope today brings you happiness and that you make fabulous and unforgettable memories.

#17 Happy birthday to my cherished daughter! On your 21st birthday, I hope that you realize just how outstanding and phenomenal you are as a human being. I will never stop being proud of being your parent. You are simply sensational.

#18 Happy 21st birthday to my intelligent, remarkable and precious daughter. Words cannot hope to describe how proud I am of you today and every single day that you have been a part of my life. You are truly a gift. I will love you forever, and then one day more.

#19 On your 21st birthday we want you to know that every day with you has been a gift. You brightened up our lives from the day you arrived. Happy birthday, daughter.

#20 Daughter, watching you grow up has been an amazing experience that I would never change. Have a truly fantastic 21st birthday. I hope that all of your wishes and dreams come true. You are so precious and treasured by everyone around you, especially today!

#21 Today is your special day! Happy 21st birthday to my daughter. You have worked so hard and grown into such a wonderful young woman. The world holds great things for you.

#22 Happy 21st birthday to my daughter. The day you came into my life, you taught me what true love and happiness really are. I would not be me without you. I love you so deeply and unconditionally.

#23 We are so happy to celebrate our wonderful daughter on your 21st birthday. Every day you impress us with your passion for life, your intelligence, and your spirit. Happy birthday!

#24 To my amazing daughter on your 21st birthday. Thank you for 21 years as your parent. You are the greatest gift I could ever receive. Happy birthday!

#25 Happy 21st birthday, to the daughter who always puts others above herself, works hard and loves life. We are so grateful to be your parents.

#26 Every year, we celebrate the birth of the daughter who made our family complete. Happy 21st birthday to the world’s greatest daughter.

#27 Happy 21st birthday, to a truly unique daughter. You bring so much creativity, passion, and beauty into the world and I’m so proud of you.

#28 Today our wonderful daughter turns 21. Time flies, especially when we have an incredible daughter who makes every day such a gift. We love you so much. Happy Birthday!

#29 Wishing the happiest 21st birthday to my beautiful daughter. Every day, you teach us something new, and we’re so proud of who you’ve become.

#30 Daughter, you’ve come such a long way, and today you’re 21. We are so proud of all your accomplishments and hard work and wish you the happiest birthday ever.

#31 Happy 21st birthday to my daughter and best friend. You bring so much love and light into the world, and it’s a gift being able to watch you grow. I hope you know what an absolute treasure you are. Stay true to you, my dear. You are simply extraordinary.

#32 These past 21 years as your parents have been a joy and an honor. May your birthday be as sweet and wonderful as you. Happy birthday, our pride and joy!

#33 Daughter, today as you celebrate your 21st birthday, I wish you a day filled with laughter and joy. Happy Birthday!

#34 To our precious daughter on her 21st birthday. We love you so much and are so amazed and proud of the kind, wonderful, caring young woman you’ve become. Happy birthday!

#35 I hope your 21st birthday is just as exceptional as you are. I could not be more thankful for having such a considerate, kind and compassionate daughter. I am so happy that you are blossoming into who you were always meant to become. Happy birthday!

#36 Every day, I am grateful to see the thoughtful, responsible, caring young woman you’ve become. I am so thankful to be your parent and so proud of you. Happy 21st birthday!

#37 To my brilliant and beautiful daughter on her 21st birthday. You are a rare and wonderful soul who makes the world a better place. Continue to be strong and fearless in whatever you do and wherever you go. And when you need rest, come back home to us. We will always be waiting with open arms. Happy birthday, our love.

#38 On this special birthday, our daughter turns 21. It has been such a joy to watch you grow into the woman you’ve become. Happy birthday!

#39 Happy 21st birthday to the most special young woman in our world. It is an honor to call you our daughter.

#40 Wishing you eternal happiness and divine love on your 21st birthday. You are the greatest daughter we could ever ask for. We will love you forever, plus one day. Happy birthday!

The Most Famous Quotes to Include with Your Birthday Message to Your Daughter

“The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me.” Ayn Rand

“And one day she discovered that she was fierce, and strong, and full of fire, and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears.” Mark Anthony

“I know my worth. I embrace my power. I say if I’m beautiful. I say if I’m strong. You will not determine my story. I will.” Amy Schumer

“A mother’s love for her child is like nothing else in the world. It knows no law, no pity, it dares all things, and crushes down remorselessly all that stand in its path.” Agatha Christie

“Absolutely, I don’t believe in rules. As I tell my daughter when she is mischievous, ‘Well-behaved women rarely make history.’” Nia Vardalos

“Keep your face to the sunshine and you can never see the shadow.” Helen Keller

“I’ve never had a moment’s doubt. I love you. I believe in you completely. You are my dearest one. My reason for life.” Ian McEwan

“Children and mothers never truly part, bound in the beating of each other’s heart.” Charlotte Gray

“Do not forget to tell your daughters God made them beautiful.” Habeeb Akande

“Remember that you are the ocean. And no one, not even the moon itself is allowed to control your glorious, beautiful tides.” Nikita Gill

“Courage, sacrifice, determination, commitment, toughness, heart, talent, guts. That’s what little girls are made of.” Bethany Hamilton

“Daughter are angels sent from above to fill our heart with unending love.” J. Lee

“To be a star, you must shine your own light, follow your own path, and don’t worry about darkness, for that is when the stars shine brightest.” Napoleon Hill

“Daughter, there are not enough words to tell you how much I love you!” Catherine Pulsifer

“A daughter is a miracle that never ceases to be miraculous…full of beauty and forever beautiful…loving and caring and truly amazing.” Deanna Beisser

“A mother teaches her daughter how to feel about herself, about handling pressure, about relishing life’s joys and conquering fears.” Melissa Harrison

“Having a little girl has been like following an old treasure map with the important paths torn away.” Heather Gudenkauf

“Being a daddy’s girl is like having permanent armor for the rest of your life.” Marinela Reka

“Every day is Father’s Day to me when I’m with her: when I’ll be able to hold my daughter and see her grow and see her smile. That’s Father’s Day to me every day.” Saquon Barkley

“As they get older, our daughters become more and more like us too.” Amy Newmark

“I never thought I would say this but raising a daughter is different than raising a son. But the one thing that is not different is my love for each of them.” Catherine Pulsifer

“A mother who radiates self-love and self-acceptance actually vaccinates her daughter against low self-esteem.” Naomi Wolf

“Are we not like the two volumes of one book?” Marceline Desbordes-Valmore

“Fathers, be good to your daughters. You are the god and the weight of her world.” John Mayor

“Today I will do what others won’t so tomorrow I can do what others can’t.” Jerry Rice

“From a little girl so very small, how and when did you get so tall?” Karen Mortensen

“A daughter is one of the most beautiful gifts this world has to give.” Laurel Atherton

“Everywhere, we learn only from those we love.” Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

“A daughter is a treasure and a cause of sleeplessness.” Ben Sirach

“Don’t be too timid and squeamish about your actions. All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

“A mother’s treasure is her daughter.” Catherine Pulsifer

“Every moment I have had with my daughter is precious.” Cathy Shaffer

“Good daughters make good mothers.” Abigail G. Whittlesey

“And though she be but little, she is fierce.” William Shakespeare

“I find as I grow older that I love those most whom I loved first.” Thomas Jefferson

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Celebrate Your Birthday With a Funny Speech

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A jocular birthday speech can be a great way to kick off your day of celebration! Are you wondering where to start?

Let’s show you how to write a funny birthday speech . Whether you’re looking for some light-hearted entertainment or something more thought-provoking, there are plenty of options available.

A funny speech that is well-written and delivered with confidence will bring out laughs from the crowd and put everyone in a festive mood. If you prepare properly, you’ll be able to craft a hilarious address that your friends and family will remember long after the party ends. 

How to Write a Funny Birthday Speech

A funny birthday speech is a great way to get the party started . The key is to focus on finding something humorous that resonates with your audience; after all, laughter is contagious!

Think of Appropriate Jokes for the Occasion

First, think about what kind of jokes or anecdotes might be appropriate for the occasion. Avoid anything too risqué or offensive—a joke about drinking alcohol might not be appropriate for a kid’s birthday party, for instance.

Keep the mood light and stick to topics that everyone can relate to. You might also want to include a few lines about why the person being celebrated is special to you.

Research Great Puns and One-Liners

Next, do some research. Look up puns and one-liners related to the theme of the event or any hobbies or interests of the honoree.

Write down any ideas that make you chuckle; these could be used as part of your speech. Also, consider reading through other people’s speeches online to get some inspiration.

Write Your First Draft

Once you’ve got plenty of ideas jotted down, it’s time to start writing. Make sure each sentence conveys your message clearly and succinctly. Use vivid language and add colorful adjectives where possible—this will help bring your speech to life.

Try to inject humor whenever possible and avoid simply listing facts. For example, instead of saying, “John loves playing basketball,” say, “John is so talented at basketball, he should probably get his own jersey!”

As you go along, read out loud the sentences you’ve written so far. This will give you an idea of how your words sound when spoken aloud and help refine your delivery style. Practice in front of a mirror until you feel comfortable with it. Remember: confidence is key!

Finish on a Positive Note

End on a positive note by wishing the honoree well and offering sincere thanks to those who attended the event. A funny birthday speech doesn’t have to take hours of effort. If you use clever wordplay and practice properly before presenting, you’ll be able to deliver an enjoyable address that everyone will remember fondly.

Examples of Funny Birthday Speeches

Let’s check a few examples of funny birthday speeches to inspire you as you write yours.

Greetings, friends! Today is a special day. It’s the birthday of an extraordinary person, and I’m honored to be here celebrating it with them! It’s not every day you get to witness the birthday of the only person you can defeat in ping pong! 

A birthday is a time for joy and merriment, especially when celebrated with good company! But before we continue our festivities, allow me to impart some wisdom. Don’t forget that birthdays are really just another opportunity for us to drink and be merry. They’re a chance to contemplate how we can eat without getting filled and play without getting tired. That being said, let us indulge ourselves with stories and laughter, allowing us to bask in the glory of our beloved one’s presence. 

I wish nothing but pleasure and felicity to my dear pal on their natal anniversary! May they never cease to amaze us with their grandiose spirit and insurmountable vivacity! 

Cheers to another incredible year ahead! Let the revels begin!

Greetings everyone! 

I am sure you are all wondering why I’m standing up here, talking to a bunch of adults about birthdays. Well, let me tell ya — it’s my best friend’s birthday today, and he is getting OLDER!! We’ve had so many fun memories together that I just couldn’t pass this opportunity to talk about him. 

But before we dive into all the humorous jokes, let me remind you all that birthdays are actually quite special. It’s a day to celebrate life, reflect on our pasts, and look forward to what tomorrow has in store for us. So even though my friend might be entering his “vintage” years, there’s still plenty of room left for adventure and growth! 

Now, onto more comical matters! As they say, age is just a number. But try telling that to someone who’s getting older by the minute! Who remembers those days when we used to pretend our troubles never existed? That’s something worth revisiting. 

And lastly, no one can deny the power of cake and ice cream. In fact, they make every occasion extra special. So let us take a moment to wish our dear old friend a very happy birthday with lots of laughter and delicious treats. Happy Birthday!

Final Thoughts

In the real sense of it, you don’t really need to know how to write a funny birthday speech . With the new Hey INK tool, you can easily generate funny birthday speeches like the ones above.

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Abir is a data analyst and researcher. Among her interests are artificial intelligence, machine learning, and natural language processing. As a humanitarian and educator, she actively supports women in tech and promotes diversity.

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Free 21st Birthday Speeches - Celebrate in Style

Free 21st birthday speeches - celebrate this magical milestone in style.

Less can sometimes be more - especially at a 21st birthday party where speeches have the potential to overwhelm the occasion.

Free 21st Birthday Speeches

A meaningful 21st birthday speech to honor and celebrate a great day is a necessity. But, let's face it, everyone wants to party!

And why not - champagne, flowers, innovative 21st birthday gift ideas to surprise your friends and loved ones , excellent catering and creative decor design -  they all come together to create a night to remember.

So, keep it short and simple - then let the party begin!

Good evening Ladies, Gentlemen, family and friends -

What a truly special evening it is that we are celebrating this evening - an evening all the more special  because we are sharing this celebration with all of you.

A warm welcome to everyone and thank you so much for sharing [insert name]'s 21st birthday with us tonight. It just wouldn't have been the same without all of you - all the people who have played such an amazing role in [his / her] life.

Tonight is [insert name] night and we hope it will be a night that [he / she] remembers fondly in the years ahead.

Twenty one years have seen [insert name ] through many milestones. We've seen [his /her] baby years turning into toddling years. We've seen [insert name] learning to talk and walk - unsteadily at first but growing in confidence daily.

And those determined  footsteps have continued through elementary and secondary school,  through sporting teams and academic achievements. We seen obstacles overcome and accolades accomplished and we've witnessed such remarkable growth and development in every facet of [insert name] life.  * [highlight some of their achievements here to make your speech personal and meaningful]

Daily, incrementally and exponentially,  we've seen [insert name] walking steadfast and purposefully through tears and laughter, in and out of relationships and onwards towards [his / her] goals still to be achieved.

Through all of these magical milestone [insert name] has remained positive and empathetic.  [He / She]  embodies a passion and zest for life that is infectious and we have all shared in these moments - they have been magical and many and everyday!

What an honor and a privilege it has been to witness this amazing young [man / lady] and their journey  towards adulthood. And tonight, [insert name] as you stand on the brink of a new chapter in your life, please know that we are so incredibly proud of you and we love you.

May you continue to walk as sure-footed as you always have, may you remain as grounded as you have always been...and may you stay in mind and spirit, forever young .

Happy birthday!

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How to nail your 21st birthday party speech

21st birthday parties  are a big deal, not to mention the all-important speech. It’s a tricky one: how do you find that perfect balance of sassy sarcasm and a serious expression of gratitude for the people around you? At  VenueNow , we’ve all been through it! And our crack team of venue experts plenty of tips to ensure you nail your have 21st birthday party speech.

It’s the milestone birthday that you’ve been waiting 20 long years to celebrate, and EVERYONE is going to be there to celebrate your significant milestone. Your best mates, oldest friends, new beau and extended family are expecting you to be on-game for the big occasion.

You definitely don’t want to slip up when it gets to crunch time, so how do you avoid a flop during your birthday speech? There are a few things you can do to make sure you rise to the occasion and deliver a tasteful speech that will be remembered. A few words of thanks are the least you can do; so let’s figure out how to make that moment a memorable one, and start with these tips.

Be prepared

The party is in full swing, you’re lost for the right words, but everyone is egging you on. This scene is very common, but it’s not where you want to be on the big day. Prepare your 21st birthday speech well ahead of time and practice it at least a few times before presenting it to the party. The most effective way to get your entire speech into your head is to practice!

If you’re forgetful, a little vague, or know you’re not a great speaker, it’s definitely worth having notes to prompt you during the speech. Some people prefer to write their speech out word-for-word to maximise efficiency and minimise the chance of forgetting key details, but your speech will actually flow better, and be heaps more engaging if you’re not looking down at a page for the entire time.

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Thank the key players

Your 21st birthday party speech isn’t a chore, but an opportunity to acknowledge the things and people that have made you the adult that you’ve become. It’s easy to get caught up in the moment and forget to thank the key players in the narrative that is your life. Your birthday speech is a great way to express gratitude to your family and friends for their endless support. To ensure you don’t forget to acknowledge mum and dad, a family member, your oldest pals, your best friend, or your lover, position the thank-yous at the start of your speech. It will be a great joy to watch their faces light up when you thank them.

Funny comes naturally to some of us, but if you’re not blessed with the humour gene, it’s easy to get some laughs with an anecdote from your past. Think of the time you laughed the hardest, the dumbest thing you did on that Contiki tour across Europe, or the holiday that went horribly wrong, then build a story around it to include in your speech. The trick here is to tell a genuinely hilarious story but avoid offending anyone in attendance. Your own speech should be cheeky but don’t cross a line when talking about people in your life.

The first time you got wasted and threw up on mum’s favourite gnome may be funny for some, but if your elderly grandparents are around, you’ll completely spoil their image of you as the angelic, innocent grandchild. Instead, have a dig at yourself, and try including an anecdote about that time you failed to read 24-hour time and ended up stranded at a bus stop in sleepy Somerset at 2 am on the last day of your holiday.

Know your audience and craft a speech with tasteful humour that will get the laughs, not the room-silencing, disapproving glares on your very day.

Choose your topic

Say something meaningful, interesting and relevant to your audience. Choose a topic that you know your guests can relate to, like the importance of friendship, lessons you’ve learnt over the past year or how much you’ve matured as a person since turning 21. Alternatively, if you want to keep it light-hearted and fun, tell a few stories about your most cherished memories from childhood, or how you’ve been affected by the people in your life. Keep it short and sweet, but make sure that every sentence packs a punch and resonates with your audience.

Say your birthday wish

Be sure to include your birthday wish in your speech as well. Make a thoughtful and heartfelt request or hope for the year ahead, be it world peace, an end to poverty or an abundance of career opportunities. And if you’re feeling brave, make it unique and personal like a romantic gesture or a plea for never-ending friendship!

While your guests are definitely expecting a speech on your special day, they’re not here to listen to you mumble about the great life that you live or tell dumb long-winded stories about the people that you love. They’re here to party, and party they will, as long as you don’t kill the vibe with an uncomfortable speech.

After a few drinks, and a bit of dancing, the attention span of your mates is likely to dwindle, so it’s important to keep things brief. Stick to a couple of minutes, and prepare a dancey playlist to lift the atmosphere and get the dance floor going post-speech.

The best speeches are those that are obviously prepared but allow room for a little flexibility. Who knows what’ll happen on the day. Your best mate or mum might interrupt with their own anecdote just as you’re getting to the best bit.

If your nearest and dearest are a talkative bunch, let them know your plan before the big day so that you (and your guests) are not bombarded with five boring, overly sappy speeches. This situation is a guaranteed mood killer and a sure-fire way to have your 21st birthday party remembered for all the wrong reasons.

Brace yourself, praise your party, cut the crap and add a bit of humour. You’ll be nailing that 21st birthday party speech in no time at all! Happy birthday!

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75 Happy 21st Birthday Daughter Messages (Heartfelt & Inspiring)

It can be hard to find the words to say on someone’s 21st birthday. But never fear, we’ve got you covered! Here are some sample happy 21st birthday daughter messages that will help you wish your little girl a happy day. From heartfelt to funny, we’ve got something for everyone. So go ahead and pick the perfect message to share with your daughter on her special day!

#1 Happy 21st birthday to a wonderful daughter that I love and cherish! You mean the world to me and you always will. It has been such an honor to watch you grow up into such a conscientious young lady. Love you, sweetheart!

#2 Son, today is your big day. We hope that all of your fondest wishes come true and we wish for nothing but continued success in life for you. May all of your dreams come true, no matter how expansive or limited they seem; They can be achieved if you want them badly enough. Have a special 21st birthday!

#3 Today is your big day — especially since it’s also my little girl’s birthday! On this joyous occasion, I wish you all the best as you enter your next chapter in life. I pray that you will always be happy and healthy as well as find your path to your destiny.

#4 From the moment you were born, we could see your light and brilliance shine through. On your 21st birthday, I hope that you will continue to shine and make a positive influence on everyone around you for many years to come.

#5 Daughter, we cannot wait to celebrate this very special day with you. You are such a wonderful person and deserve all the happiness in the world today and every day of your life! Happy birthday!

#6 My dearest daughter, I feel so blessed to have been gifted with having you in my life these past two decades. Cheers to you on your 21st birthday!

#7 Happy 21st birthday, daughter. You were born into this world with an impact that would change many lives in a beautiful and positive way.

#8 I will never stop cherishing our unbreakable bond and the unconditional love we share. Have a wonderful 21st birthday.

#9 I am so proud of the young woman you have become and all that you’ve achieved so far. I hope you realize how wonderful, unique and special you are. May your 21st birthday be absolutely fantastic!

#10 You are our miracle daughter. We prayed for you and were overjoyed when God decided that we had waited long enough to bring you into the world on your 21st birthday. It is truly an honor to be your mom, and I hope that you will enjoy this wonderful day with us.

#11 May today be everything you hoped it would be! Happy Birthday, daughter. Wishing only the best for you always on this special day and every other too.

#12 Happy 21st birthday! Celebrating you today is a privilege…you inspire us daily to live life well and make this world a better place one person at a time! You are amazing in every way Love you!

#13 Happy 21st birthday to my amazing, beautiful daughter. You are one in a million and I will always love you more than words can express. May your special day be filled with wonderful memories!

#14 On your 21st birthday, we wish for you to seize all of the opportunities available to you today. We hope that any doubts or fears are cast aside so that you may enjoy this day fully. Find excitement in every moment. You are our pride and joy!

#15 From the day you were born our lives have never been the same again – they have been better by being yours. Happy birthday! May everything turn out exactly as you want it to today, daughter because that is what everyone around you wants for you, too!

#16 Happy 21st birthday to our precious daughter. We feel so blessed that we get to call you our child; a truly remarkable girl. You have come so far and we hope that your best years are still ahead of you. Make this year count!

#17 The day has arrived when we can’t wait to take a step back and admire what a wonderful young lady you have become. Good luck with all of your plans today, darling daughter.

#18 On your 21st birthday, dear Daughter, I hope that you realize just how priceless your heart is – it’s been filled with love from the moment of your birth and will never stop doing so as long as you let it. May you enjoy this special day to the fullest, sweetheart!

#19 Happy 21st birthday to our beautiful baby girl. We always knew that you would grow up to be an even more gorgeous lady than your mother – and we were right! You are one of a kind, and I hope that today is everything you want it to be.

#20 To my daughter on her 21st birthday: may all of your hopes and dreams come true on such a momentous occasion in your life. Have an amazing time celebrating with friends and family! Wishing you all the best, honey.

#21 My dearest daughter, you are the most wonderful person I know. You make me so proud every day and I see you growing up to be an amazing woman. On your 21st birthday, we want you to look out into the horizon and set our sights on where life will take you! May all of your dreams come true, sweet girl.

#22 May your 21st birthday be a truly memorable time in your life when everything comes together just perfectly for you. We love you with all our hearts!

#23 Happy 21st Birthday to my beautiful daughter! You have grown up so much since this time last year and become such a wonderfully kind person who is able to touch the lives of others in a special way. I cannot wait to see how you will continue to bloom and blossom!

#24 Daughter, I want you to know that I could not be any prouder of you than I am now. You inspire me to be a better person and parent every day, and for that I am so thankful! Celebrate your 21st birthday in style today!

#25 On this special day we want you to know that our hearts will always be full whenever we think about the blessing that is you. We love you more than words can express, sweetheart, and hope that you have an amazing 21st birthday!

#26 Please do not ever forget how special you are to us daughter. Just know that no matter what happens from this day on, mommy and daddy will always love you with all of our hearts. May your 21st birthday bring many opportunities your way that will make you even happier than ever before.

#27 Dear, gorgeous daughter of ours – we cannot wait to see what the future holds for you. May today be the start of many amazing days ahead, and may all of your dreams come true. You are our shining star and we love you so much.

#28 Happy 21st birthday to our perfect little girl! You have been the best daughter that anyone could ever ask for. On your special day, we want you to know that our hearts will always be filled with love every time we think about the wonderful blessing that you are. You will always be our princess!

#29 We want you to know that we will never stop loving and supporting you, no matter what you do with your life. We are so proud of you, darling daughter!

#30 Happy 21st birthday to my beautiful daughter. You have been a wonderful child since the day you were born, and I hope that your special day is one filled with excitement and joy. It’s been an honor being your father!

#31 Hello world — this is my amazing, talented and perfect daughter telling you all how much she loves her dad on her 21st birthday. Dad, it has been such a blast getting to know you over the last 22 years and watching you become such an incredible human being in front of my eyes. Today when we celebrate with friends and family excitedly clanking our glasses together, I would like for us all to raise our glasses high up in the and toast my best friend who is also my father. Cheers to you, dad!

#32 Happy 21st birthday to my incredible daughter! Every day with you brightens up our lives even more than the last. Trust in your abilities and know that just because you are growing older does not mean that we will stop loving you. You are so important to us no matter what age you are. May your special day be filled with lasting memories.

#33 The greatest gift I have ever received was when fate brought me the most perfect human being on earth — my child, my daughter. On her 21st birthday I hope she sends all of her dreams into the universe so they come back tenfold fulfilled by the end of the year (and maybe sooner).

#34 Happy 21st birthday, daughter! To our sweet and special girl. Please know how much you mean to us and all that we would do for you. You are beautiful inside and out, and we hope that your day is full of nothing but the best.

#35 Wish my beloved daughter a wonderful 21st birthday today! Be happy, be healthy, and may all of your dreams come true on this day and every day after. I love you with all of my heart and can’t wait to see what amazing things lay ahead for our lives together.

#36 May God’s grace shine upon our precious daughter on her 21st birthday today! We love having you in our family and wish only the very best for you.

#37 My beautiful daughter, we hope that your 21st birthday is amazing! We want to let you know how much we love and appreciate you today and every day. You are a wonderful kid and we couldn’t ask for anyone better than our sweet baby girl.

#38 May this be one of the best birthdays ever! Hoping that all of your heart’s desires come true on your 21st birthday. I never stop thinking about how special you are, and just wanted to take a moment to let you know that I am so glad God chose me to be your mommy!

#39 Happy 21st birthday to my amazing daughter. I am so proud of you for being who you are, and I cannot wait to see all the adventures life is going to take you on. We love you so much.

#40 Have an awesome 21st birthday! We hope that today brings you nothing but happiness, joy and excitement; because after all, it’s your day! Enjoy every minute of it. You deserve nothing less than the very best.

#41 To our wonderful daughter – we hope that your special day fills your heart with joy and happiness beyond measure. We wish for you many days ahead of pure contentment and blissful living, because that is what makes up a life well lived. We love you so much!

#42 Happy 21st birthday to a young woman that has brought more sunshine into our lives than we ever could have imagined. We are so incredibly proud of you, and cannot wait to see what the future holds for you! Enjoy every minute of your day today – it is because of you that life feels full of endless possibilities.

#43 Happy birthday to our wonderful daughter – we hope that this day brings you everything that makes up a truly happy birthday. You deserve nothing less than the very best today, because that is what comes from being as special as you are! Have fun always because it’s all about you on your 21st birthday!

#44 Today is an extra special 21st birthday to my amazing daughter. We want to wish you good health, happiness, laughter and smiles. You bring so much joy into our lives each and every day, and we hope that you have a birthday full of love from friends and family!

#45 Happy 21st birthday to the most compassionate, generous, and one of a kind daughter in the world. Not only am I your parent, I also consider you a friend that I love and value more than words can describe. You are truly a gift from God to me and everyone around you.

#46 I hope on your 21st birthday you realize how extraordinary of a person you are! But even if you do not know this today, we want you to take it from us…that deep down inside of your heart there is something special about you that makes this world better because of who you are. We treasure every moment with our beautiful daughter.

#47 Our greatest wish for you on your 21st birthday is that you continue to find fulfillment and pleasure in whatever it is that makes your heart smile and brings a twinkle to your beautiful eyes. Wishing you the best of everything!

#48 Happy 21st birthday, daughter! Life is filled with so many good things for us to treasure when we have someone as special as you by our side. You brighten up our lives with your extraordinary personality and incredible talents. We are proud of every single thing about you, including being your parent.

#49 Happy 21st birthday, daughter! May this day bring a realization of how fortunate we are to have a girl like you in our lives, giving us comfort and happiness each day that God sends down from above. You mean everything to us, and will continue to do so.

#50 I am sending you the warmest congratulations on your 21st birthday! Wishing you all of life’s best gifts on this very special day. Enjoy your day to the fullest degree, daughter, because it is about to get even better. Just remember that whatever happens today or tomorrow…you always have at least one person in your corner who loves you unconditionally. That would be us!

#51 We wish for nothing but happiness and success for our treasured darling daughter on her 21st birthday! You are a wonderful girl with a bright future ahead of you right around the corner, so keep shining brightly through every challenge that comes your way. It is said that behind every successful young woman, there is a very supportive father…well just know that in our case, it’s both parents!

#52 Happy 21st birthday to my wonderful daughter. You mean the world to me and I am so proud of the strong, brave and beautiful woman that you are today. Stay just like this forever because you are perfect just the way you are.

#53 On your 21st birthday, I hope that you have an unforgettable day with all of your loved ones around you. Time sure does fly by when you’re having fun! I want to wish the best for you always, no matter what. You are very special to us all daughter, stay safe on your big day!

#54 We never dreamed how happy our lives would be with a daughter but we have been blessed with one incredible person in your life who has made our lives so much better. You are a special person and we wish you an amazing 21st birthday.

#55 Happy 21st birthday to the most amazing daughter in the entire world! We cannot wait to celebrate your day with you, and we can now give you all of those silly presents that we’ve been holding on to for the past two decades. It’s about time, right? Stay as sweet as ever, because I love you very much!

#56 We’re celebrating our beautiful, intelligent and talented daughter today as she turns 21 years old! How lucky we are to have such a wonderful child like you in our lives. Enjoy this day because it only happens once in a lifetime. Happy birthday from your parents and siblings!

#57 Our daughter, we can’t wait to celebrate your 21st birthday with you. It’s been such a joy watching you grow up and become such a wonderful young woman. You should know by now that we will love and support you no matter what because we believe in you so much. Stay just like this forever. We love you very much!

#58 Happy 21st birthday, beautiful daughter! I want to thank you for everything that you do and how hardworking and independent that you are. You never cease to amaze us every day with the things that you do so keep this up throughout your life because it is truly remarkable how talented and extraordinary of an individual that you are beginning to be! Enjoy yourself and your loved ones on this day and all of the wonderful memories to come.

#59 Happy 21st birthday, daughter! I hope that you have a wonderful day filled with happiness and joy. You deserve it all today and every day of the year.

#60 Daughter, on your 21st birthday we just wanted to say that we are so incredibly proud of you and everything that you have achieved in your life. You make us feel like the luckiest parents alive! Wishing you lots of love and happiness today and always.

#61 As you celebrate this special milestone today, remember how much we love you and cherish all the memories we’ve made together over these wonderful years as your mom and dad. Have an amazing celebration filled with laughter, fun and all kinds of goodness!

#62 Happy 21st birthday to our beautiful daughter. May today be filled with lots of love, joy and happiness. We are so very blessed to have you in our lives!

#63 Today your journey begins, so kick back and enjoy all the wonderful surprises that life has in store for you. You deserve it. Happy 21st birthday, daughter!

#64 On your 21st birthday we just want you to know how proud we are of everything that you have achieved so far in this exciting chapter of your life. Keep up the amazing work! We hope that every single dream that you’ve ever had comes true! You’re one exceptional young woman and it is an honor raising such an indescribably fantastic girl. Have a fantastic day, daughter!

#65 Happy 21st birthday to the apple of our eye. Sending out birthday wishes to our wonderful daughter! We hope that you have a day filled with bliss, happiness and joy!

#66 I may not always say it, but I want you to know that I couldn’t be more proud of you as my daughter. You are selfless and kind and such a bright light. May today serve as the first day of your independence as well as a reminder to aim for those stars! Happy 21st birthday!

#67 To the most gorgeous young woman we’ve ever laid eyes on – happy 21st birthday! You didn’t just blow out candles dear one; you lit up this entire world with your glowing soul and heart. We hope that this year brings unparalleled happiness and joy into your life; we love you beyond words!

#68 A very happy 21st birthday to our angelic daughter! It has been so rewarding to watch you grow up and we wouldn’t change a thing. You are such an amazing human being, and we feel beyond lucky that you call us your parents! Have the most fantastic day ever – we love you!

#69 What more can we say about our wonderful daughter? We’re overjoyed that you’re celebrating your 21st birthday today; it’s something special and we couldn’t miss out on this momentous occasion for anything in the world. Happy birthday! We hope that good things and happiness follow wherever life takes you next.

#70 To our beautiful girl – happy 21st birthday! May today bring nothing short of absolute joy, light and happiness into your heart as well as every other part of your life. We love you with all our hearts; wishing you a day full of happiness and joy!

#71 A very happy 21st birthday to the daughter that we love and adore so much! You bring such light into our lives and we hope that this year brings you nothing but good things. May the future be bright and blessed for you, we will always be here by your side! Have a wonderful day dear one.

#72 To an exceptional young woman who continues to shine in this world – happy 21st birthday! It’s been an absolute pleasure watching over you as you’ve grown up into the phenomenal person that you are today. You are truly remarkable in every single possible, which is why I am so proud to be your mother. You deserve everything that life has to offer you, and much more!

#73 Happy 21st birthday to the most accomplished young woman that I know. You’ve earned all of your success and worked incredibly hard for it every step of the way. Keep on working like you do because you’re awesome at it!

#74 To our amazing daughter on her 21st birthday, you are an inspiration to us each and every day. Your strength astounds me, your attitude astounds everyone else, and your spirit astounds both. We love you so much.

#75 May this special day mark the beginning of a new era in which you have even more good fortune than ever before. You deserve nothing but happiness today and always!

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21st Birthday Speech

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Toast your friend or family member on his birthday with a great speech that celebrates what turning 21 is all about. Whether your friend is planning to have a few drinks or just wants to celebrate this milestone occasion, tailor your speech to suit your friend's birthday style. Each speech is editable and can be downloaded using Adobe Reader .

Make Your 21st Memorable Speech

A 21st birthday is often one that stands out in people's minds for years, simply because of the milestone year. For a fun-loving birthday gal or guy who is excited to have a first alcoholic drink, this is definitely one s/he will remember for years. Bring up some past birthday moments and allude to making more in your speech.

• 105+ Heavenly Birthday Quotes for Family or Friends

Exciting Adulthood Ahead Speech

Not every 21-year-old is going to have a birthday bash that involves a wild party. Instead, they may simply want a low-key adult birthday party. A speech for this celebrating 20-something and friends can focus on their full entrance to adulthood, past accomplishments, and future endeavors. It should be optimistic and celebratory.

Tips for Customizing Your Speech

Tailor the speech to suit your friend's personality and the specific party theme. For example:

• At a party with a theme, such as tropical oasis or retro 90s, tie the speech into the theme. Work in related phrases and even rhymes!
• For a truly unique birthday speech, consider writing a list of 21 "things" about your friend or family member. This could be related to anything; for example, you could talk about 21 funny moments in their life or 21 things you love about him or her.
• Don't make too many jokes about drinking unless you know it's okay with the birthday person. This can be something he or she is worried or nervous about, and you don't want to add stress to the event.
• Keep things clean; don't include raunchy or risque jokes, even among friends at a party where people are imbibing. You don't want to give a speech in poor taste, especially if someone is recording the event.
• End the speech by raising your glass in a toast. If the birthday person isn't a drinker, end by wishing him or her Happy Birthday and invite others to join you.

Toasting the 21st Birthday

A great birthday speech for a 21st birthday is one that honors the birthday person and suits his or her personality. Add a few light-hearted jokes, and you're sure to give a speech that makes them feel great about this milestone celebration.

Cheers to 21 Years: Speech Writing Tips for the Perfect 21st Birthday Toast

Stepping into the age of 21 is a significant milestone – a transition from adolescence to adulthood, a moment to celebrate achievements, and an opportunity to look forward to the adventures that lie ahead. If you find yourself tasked with delivering the perfect 21st birthday toast, fear not! In this article, we’ll explore speech writing tips that will help you craft a memorable and heartfelt toast that captures the essence of the occasion.

Start with a Warm Greeting: Setting the Tone

Begin your toast with a warm and genuine greeting to acknowledge the birthday celebrant. Consider incorporating a personal anecdote or a shared memory that highlights the significance of the day. Connecting with the audience from the start will create a comfortable and engaging atmosphere.

Reflect on Milestones: Celebrating Achievements

Take a moment to reflect on the achievements and milestones of the birthday honoree. Whether it’s academic accomplishments, personal growth, or unique experiences, acknowledge the journey that has led them to this moment. Highlighting these successes adds depth to the toast and underscores the significance of turning 21.

Share Anecdotes and Memories: Adding Personal Touches

Infuse your toast with personal anecdotes and cherished memories that showcase the celebrant’s personality, quirks, and positive qualities. Whether it’s a funny story from the past or a heartwarming moment, sharing personal experiences will resonate with the audience and make the toast more relatable.

Express Gratitude: Acknowledging Friends and Family

Acknowledge the importance of friends and family in the celebrant’s life. Express gratitude for the support, love, and shared experiences that have enriched their journey. This not only highlights the value of relationships but also involves the audience in the celebration.

Look to the Future: Embracing the Next Chapter

As the celebrant embarks on the journey of adulthood, express optimism and excitement for the future. Offer words of encouragement, share aspirations, and convey confidence in their ability to navigate the challenges and opportunities that lie ahead. This forward-looking perspective adds a hopeful and inspirational touch to the toast.

Inject Humor: Keeping the Atmosphere Light

A touch of humor can enhance the toast, creating a lighthearted and enjoyable atmosphere. Incorporate witty remarks or funny anecdotes that celebrate the celebrant’s sense of humor or playfully tease them in good spirits. Just ensure that the humor aligns with the celebrant’s personality and the tone of the celebration.

End with a Toast: Raising Your Glass to 21 Years

Conclude your speech by proposing a heartfelt toast. Encourage everyone to raise their glasses in celebration of the birthday honoree’s journey and the exciting years that lie ahead. A well-crafted toast not only wraps up the speech on a positive note but also invites everyone to actively participate in the celebration.

Crafting the perfect 21st birthday toast is an opportunity to celebrate the individual, share memories, and inspire hope for the future. By incorporating personal touches, expressing gratitude, and infusing humor, your toast can resonate with the audience and make the celebration truly memorable. So, raise your glass, offer your best wishes, and let your words create a moment that the birthday celebrant will cherish for years to come. Cheers to 21 years!

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Cheers To You! Your Guide To Your 21st Birthday Speech

• February 16, 2022

Congratulations! You will soon turn 21 and brace yourself up for the rest of your adult life. Your 18th birthday was unique because you reached the age of majority and became a legal adult. But your 21st birthday is a big deal, and not to forget your speech.

Writing your 21st birthday speech can be a daunting task as you have hit a significant milestone. As your friends and loved ones gear up to celebrate your special day, this is an opportunity to share exciting anecdotes with them and show them you care.

If you are wondering how to put it all together, don’t worry, as we have some fantastic tips that will make your 21st birthday speech unforgettable.

Why Your 21st Birthday Should Be Memorable

Youngsters are very excited to turn 21 as this is the age where you are officially a responsible adult. From a historical perspective, the 21st birthday was celebrated as a momentous occasion during mediaeval times when a boy became a knight . However, 21st birthdays are no longer gender exclusive but are still considered a significant milestone. Traditionally young people were given the key to the family’s house at 21, making the event all the more special.

Enhance Your 21st Birthday Speech with These Amazing Tips!

Your 21st birthday speech should charm your audience and make your special occasion memorable. If you are looking for some terrific 21st birthday speech ideas, follow these tips to enthral your audience.

Be Prepared and Write It All Down

Make a list of all the wishes, memories, and sentiments you want to include in your speech. This will give you a clue on what you want to focus on in your speech. Once you have listed all the points, you can elaborate on them.

Prepare your speech in advance and practice it a couple of times till you are confident of presenting it to friends and family. If you think that you might forget something, write your speech word-to-word so that you don’t miss out on anything. But make sure not to read out the entire speech from the paper as your guests might die of boredom!

Let Everyone Get a Few Drinks In

Give everyone some time to sit back and enjoy so that they are ready to get entertained. Your jokes will seem funnier once your mates chug a few beers and loosen up.

Thank the Key Players

So many people, including your parents, siblings, and friends, have come together to make this occasion memorable. It is good to start your speech by thanking all the guests for coming. Make sure that you thank the host and let everyone know that you appreciate their efforts. After all, gratitude nurtures your relationships.

Chuck In a Joke

Grab some eyeballs with a funny anecdote ; after all, everyone is here to enjoy your special evening.

It’s okay if humour doesn’t come naturally to you; think about the last time you laughed uncontrollably. Share one of the dumbest things you did on a trip or a plan that went incredibly wrong, and you will take the entertainment quotient up a notch! But make sure not to crack a joke that offends anyone.

Here are a few sample funny 21st birthday speech ideas:

“Happy 21st birthday to my best friend/sibling/child! I can’t believe you’re finally legal… now we can get into all sorts of trouble together! Just kidding, please don’t do anything I wouldn’t do. Or wait, scratch that. Do everything I wouldn’t do because that’s probably more fun. Either way, happy birthday and here’s to many more years of mischief and mayhem!”

“Welcome to the adult world, [name]! It’s a weird place filled with responsibility and boring things like paying bills and doing your own laundry. But on the bright side, you can finally drink alcohol! Just remember, it’s all fun and games until someone pukes on the carpet. Happy 21st birthday!”

“Happy 21st birthday, [name]! You’re finally old enough to do all the things your parents told you not to do when you were younger. Just kidding, please don’t actually do those things. But on a serious note, congratulations on reaching this milestone and cheers to many more years of good times ahead!”

Show Sincerity

It is good to have some kind words at the end of your speech. You can share briefly how your friends and family have added meaning to your life and show how much you care for all the people who’ve gathered to make your birthday memorable.

Keep Your Birthday Speech Short

Make your speech short and simple as people have other things vying for their attention. Wondering how long your speech should be? Ideally, it shouldn’t be more than five minutes, so avoid log stories and keep it to the point. Have a party playlist ready, as your guests might be in the mood to hit the dancefloor right after.

Keep Them Wanting More

Twenty-one years is a truly momentous occasion, and you can make it all the more special with a short and exciting speech. Your birthday speech is a great way to express gratitude to your family and friends for their endless support. Moreover, you can also share your future plans with them. The best advice is to make it crisp, straightforward, and funny.

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Funny 21st Birthday Messages

How can you describe a 21-year-old? 

They’re a sort of lanky, yobbish thing often found boozing , having drunken sex , and doing all sorts of uncouth activities like crossing on red, not holding doors open and mooning at local priests.

They’re probably not all like that though, I’ll have to check but they do all have one thing in common and that is a 21st Birthday . And with this milestone comes a 21st Birthday card and the quandary of what exactly to write inside them.

I am here to help you spice up those cards with our list of funny 21st birthday messages to offend or amuse the lucky man or woman celebrating their special day this year.

Funny 21st Birthday Quotes

Happy 21st Birthday. You’ve been causing chaos since 2001.

You’re 21 years old. Congratulations on your continued existence.

You’ve got four years until you’d be in the old person category on X factor.

If it was ever up for doubt, your youth has definitely expired.

You’re now older, wiser and more mature. Well, you’re older at least.

21 years of age. Here’s to ending up hungover and sick in bed after work has drained every ounce of energy from your body.

Does anybody know any good looking 21 year olds having a birthday today? Because I don’t. (1st)

Here’s to getting ducking frunk on your birthday and making a tassive mit out of yourself.

You’ve burst out of the womb, burst out of the closet, and burst into your 21st birthday. Have an amazing day.

Just think, in another 21 years you might actually have developed some maturity.

21 years ago, a film about a little specky orphan made a few quid. Oh, and you were born.

Happy 21st Birthday, time to get so off your face you vomit up a little bit of kidney.  

I raised you to 21 without letting you die!

Just in case you’re too hungover to realise, today’s your 21st Birthday.

I heard it’s a big birthday this year so I got you this folded piece of card. Make sure you open it nice and wide, there’s no money in it.

 Happy 21st Birthday, it takes guts to step out into the world with that face.

20 + 1 = an irresponsible young adult.

Danger! You’re now hurtling at full speed toward your thirties.

Happy 21st Birthday to my favourite useless clump of cells.

You’ve orbited the sun 21 times. Now you’ll be orbiting the sun 7 days a week with all the booze you’ll be glugging down your neck. 

Happy 21st. It’s times like these that I’m reminded why you’re so special. Because you make me look like the attractive friend. 

Mary Shelley wrote Frankenstein when she was 21, a book about a horrifying, zombie-like creature much feared in the community. So, a bit like you after a hangover.  

At 20 years old, Bill Gates founded Microsoft, at 21 years old you’ve… done some things as well probably. 

Now you’re 21, life’s about to get very good. If your bar is set extremely low.

Let’s say cheers to 21 years. Cheers to beers and cheers to existential fears. 

Happy 21st, I lose track of what gen you are.

May your 21st birthday party be so wild that daylight stings your eyes for the next week. 

Try and remember how proud I am of you turning 21. Because I’m probably not going to be as proud tomorrow morning. 

Funny 21st Birthday Messages For Boys (Or Men)

Happy 21st Birthday. Pelé had won the World Cup by this age. You can’t even tie the laces on your football boots. 

7,665 days of living with an absolute calamity. Happy 21st Birthday son.

Happy 21st to a special son, only a mom as awesome as me could have birthed someone as awesome as you.

21 years old but you’ll always be Mommies little boy. Unless you get a girl pregnant, then you’re on your own.

Happy 21st from your dad, I’m apologising now for all of my bad habits you’ll soon start picking up.

Happy 21st Birthday to my idiot brother.

Happy 21st Birthday Bro. My little brother’s growing up but your brain doesn’t seem to be.

 Happy 21st to my favourite gay, I hope you have a super day.

Your 21st birthday is sounding pretty gay. I’m in.

Funny 21st Birthday Quotes For Girls (Or Women)

Happy 21st birthday bestie. Try not to go arse over tit at your birthday bash.

Happy 21st birthday to my best friend. You’re my favourite totally unstable female.

Happy 21st birthday from Dad to the biggest diva I know.

Happy 21st Birthday to a special daughter. I’m so proud that you’ve turned from a child into a slightly taller child.

Today’s the day you thank your mother for giving you all the good genes.

Happy Birthday Sis. Girl power is battling through a hangover after their 21st.

You demand special treatment every other day of the year so I don’t see why your 21st is going to be any different.

Beautiful, looks like a princess, sparkling personality and the one sending you this card. Happy 21st. 

Happy 21st Birthday. In lesbian years you’re about 57.

Read all about it, it’s your 21st, my little lesbian thespian.

Rude 21st Birthday Messages

Those birthday candles aren’t the only thing you’ll be blowing tonight. That’ll be your bank balance on all the rounds we’re going to get you to buy.

Happy 21st Birthday, here’s to getting very drunk, very horny and regretting everything in the morning.

Happy 21st Birthday! Here’s to being young, fun, and full of c-ompliments to your parents for raising you right.

Happy 21st Birthday to my favourite lesbian. Going meat-free since 2001.

Your ball sack is over two decades old.

Happy 21st to the biggest bell end with the biggest bell end.

Funny 21st Birthday Poems

You’re older and wiser and winning at life, we’re proud of you for never giving us strife. But parents will nag and work has begun as they try to tell you your childhood is done. Now life will be stressful and life will be wild but never forget, deep down you’re a child.

Adulthood sounds stressful and can seem like a bore, your parents will tell you to slow down and mature. But ignore you dad and ignore your mum, 21’s a time for a huge load of fun.

It’s your 21st and so I’ve been told, it seems you’re getting a little bit old. Another year older and my hands started to ache, putting all of those candles on top of your cake.

It’s your 21st birthday, give us a cheer, it’s time to go wild and down pints of beer. You’re going to be merry; you’re going to be sick but most of all you’re going to be an absolute prick.

I hope this has sparked your creative juices and provided you with plenty of ideas for 21st Birthday messages. 

And if not, it’s passed a few minutes hasn’t it? We’re all friends here.

While we have you here though, why not have a little browse of some of our funny 21st Birthday cards . 

We have a wide range available and you’re sure to find something you’ll love. 

Thanks for stopping by and indulging our nonsense, we wish you a very fine day.

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80 Sweet Happy 21st Birthday Wishes For Daughter

Your daughter has just turned 21? Then she knows things are about to get serious. So, be picky with your words to wish your daughter a happy 21st birthday.

And don’t worry, if you are not good with words.  We have the best unique, thoughtful, and dare we say Gen-z-ish happy 21st birthday daughter wishes in store. 

Turning 21 is sort of like turning 18 but with a few ounces of responsibilities. Life is about to get serious enough to make one feel like they’re not 18 anymore.

So, now your daughter is no longer a baby girl. She is now ready to take big leaps and make big moves. And so we just want you to wish her the best.

These 21st birthday wishes will definitely help you translate your emotions into words precisely. And make you and your feelings come across your daughter exactly as you wish to.

20 Special Happy 21st Birthday Wishes For Daughter

1. Happy 21st birthday! Turning 21 is such an exciting time. You’re really stepping into adulthood now and the possibilities ahead of you are endless. I hope you take risks, make great memories, and fully embrace this next chapter of your life!

2. Wow, 21 years old already! As you transition into adulthood, I hope you maintain your spark and optimism. May your next year be filled with adventure, laughter and personal growth. This is your time to shine bright!

3. Congratulations on hitting the big 2-1! With adulthood comes more freedom and responsibility. My hope is that you find balance, staying true to yourself. Continue becoming the incredible person you were meant to be.

4. Cheers to 21 years of you making this world a little brighter! I am so proud of the person you are and excited to see you continue to unfold into your fullest potential. Happy birthday!

5. Yay, you’re 21! Birthdays are milestones meaning you’re older AND wiser now. Remember that your experiences shape who you are. Spread your wings this next year and soar!

6. You’re the author of your own unique story. As you turn 21, I hope you take bold risks to chase your dreams, while staying true to your heart. Live fully and intentionally this next year!

7. Welcome to your 21st trip around the sun! Always believe in yourself and your abilities. The world is opening up to you now. Get out there and make it count!

8. Turning 21 means the world is yours for the taking. You have such capability within you, so set audacious goals and tackle them. Happy birthday, super star!

9. Cheers to the start of many firsts and adventures as you turn 21! Face everything with courage, kindness and an open heart. You’ve got this!

10. Happy birthday to someone who lights up every room she’s in! I hope 21 surprises you in the best possible ways. Here’s to endless blessings!

11. Birthday girl! Can you believe you’re 21? Buckle up, it’s gonna be a wild ride but in the best possible way! You’ve got the brains, sass, and style to totally rock this next chapter. This is YOUR year, babe. Now let’s get out there and make some epic memories!

12. Shut the front door, you’re 21?! Seems like just yesterday you were learning to walk and now here you are all ready to take on the world! It’s okay to stumble sometimes, that’s how we grow. But you’ve got so much awesomeness within you. Now let’s celebrate and make this birthday one for the books!

13. There’s my little superstar turning 21! Finding your way at this age can be tricky, but I know your compassion and good judgement will see you through. Call me anytime for advice! I’m so proud of you. Cheers to an incredible year!

14. Can you believe it – 21 big ones! I hope you have adventures that fill your heart with joy this year. Just remember to enjoy both the climb and the view from the summit! However you choose to start this thrilling new chapter, do it in your own unique, fun-loving style!

15. Birthday girl, welcome to Level 21! The quests only get more interesting from here. But I know with your courage, quick wit and passion, you’ll continue acing every challenge. Can’t wait to see all you achieve and become this year. Go dazzle the world!

16. Wow, 21 – such a huge milestone! But you don’t need to worry at all – you’ve always faced life with kindness and wisdom beyond your years. Just keep being your spirited, creative self. Now let’s get this epic celebration started!

17. Woohoo, happy 21st birthday! Now’s the time for new adventures, new friends, new horizons! Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and try everything that sparks your curiosity. And home’s always here for you when you need a comforting hug. Have a blast out there!

18. 21 years of your awesomeness, how incredible! Dream massively, make bold moves towards those dreams, but enjoy the spectacular ride too. I know you have so much greatness within you ready to shine bright. This is YOUR stage – now go rock it to the max!

19. You made it to 21, hun! I know it can feel overwhelming navigating young adulthood. But take it step-by-step, soak up each special moment, and know you have a whole tribe behind you. This will be your best year yet! Can’t wait to see you thrive!

20. Welcome to the 21 club – seat reserved just for you! Adulting can be tiring but it comes with perks too if you find balance. Never lose your fun-loving spirit! Now let’s celebrate the smart, creative superstar that you are, with cake and dancing!

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21st Birthday Message From Mother To Daughter

1. Happy 21st, sweetheart! Watching you grow up has been the best. Even though you’re all grown up now, you’ll always be my baby girl. Embrace adulthood – I know you’re going to thrive with that confidence of yours!

2. 21 already – wow! I’m so proud of the thoughtful, kind young woman you’ve become. As you take on more grown up stuff this year, remember I’m always in your corner, ready to listen and support you.

3. Happy Birthday! 21 is big – time to dream big! As your mom, I’ll always be your biggest cheerleader urging you on to take chances and shine bright. Sky’s the limit, honey!

4. My baby is 21, can you believe it?! Feels like yesterday I first held you. Now look at you, all set to take on the world in your own way! Go kick some butt out there, sweetheart. I couldn’t be prouder!

5. There’s my b-day girl! 21 looks good on you! You keep growing wiser and more wonderful every year. Stay true to your beautiful spirit. And remember – some of life’s greatest lessons happen outside classrooms!

6. My darling girl, seeing the incredible woman you bloom into makes my heart burst! You have so much strength and grace – you’re going to make your mark out there. I know it! Happy 21st b-day! I love you!

7. How are you 21 already?! Time flies so fast! As you spread your wings into adulthood, know that mistakes are just stepping stones. You’ve got this! And I’ll always be here with hug andcookie when you need me!

8. Happy Birthday, my grown up but forever baby girl! 21 is such an exciting beginning. Say yes to new adventures but remember to soak up all the special moments too! So much joy ahead!

9. On your 21st, I hope you know how incredibly capable you are! Believe in yourself. I definitely believe in you, today and always. Let’s celebrate how far you’ve come, my love! Just the beginning!

10. My darling girl is 21 – wow! It’s a whole new chapter filled with possibilities. So thrilled to see you take on the world and all the great things I know you’ll do! Always here for you! Love you so!

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Happy 21st Birthday Daughter from Dad

1. Happy 21st, kiddo! Watching you grow up has been the best. You’ve got so much life ahead of you – I know you’ll do great things. And I’ll always be here when you need me, no matter what.

2. No way my little girl is 21! Feels like yesterday I was teaching you to ride a bike, now look – all grown up and ready to take on the world! I’m so proud of the amazing person you’ve become.

3. Happy 21st birthday! Being your dad has been my greatest, wildest adventure. Can’t wait to see where this next chapter takes you. Remember, life’s about enjoying the ride. Soak up every minute!

4. My darling girl, keep being your hilarious, bold, one-of-a-kind self. The world is better with you in it! Watching the fearless woman you’ve become makes me bust with pride. Happy 21st!

5. 21 already – wow! As your dad I want you to know I believe in you wholeheartedly. You got this, sweetheart! Now go show the world the incredibly talents and spirit you have within!

6. Our baby girl is 21! Having you in our lives has been such privilege. You inspire me everyday with your passion for life. Happy b-day to someone who always shines so bright!

7. Hey birthday girl, 21 looks good on you! I know life has ups and downs but I have no doubts you’ll handle it all with grace. Making your old man proud since day one!

8. My little dancer is 21 – where does the time go?! From first steps to first show, every moment with you has been precious. You have so much awesome ahead! I love you, sweetheart!

9. To the one who turned my life upside down in the best possible way! At 21, your adventure’s just beginning and I can’t wait to cheer you on. Just a phone call away whenever you need me!

10. 21 years ago you made me a dad and filled my world with joy! Now go chase those dreams out there! I’ll always be your biggest fan. Happy birthday, my heart!

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Inspirational 21st Birthday Quotes For Daughter

1. Happy 21st! You know, the best part about life at this age? You’re old enough to know what you want and young enough to go after it with all your heart. Dive into this year with all the enthusiasm you’ve got.

2. Turning 21, huh? It’s like you’ve just been handed the keys to the coolest car ever – life. Drive it on the path that makes you happiest. And remember, I’m always here if you need a co-pilot.

3. Happy Birthday! At 21, the world doesn’t just open up; it throws its doors wide open for you. Grab every opportunity, learn from every setback, and never stop dreaming.

4. On your 21st, remember this little piece of advice: life’s too short for ‘what ifs.’ Chase your dreams, make some wonderful memories, and don’t forget to call your old man once in a while!

5. 21 already? Time flies! Just a heads-up: this is the age when you realize you can actually do all the things you’ve dreamed of. Go for it, and don’t look back. You’re going to be amazing.

6. Happy 21st Birthday! This is the age of possibilities, adventures, and discovering who you really are. Embrace it all, the good and the not-so-good. It’s all part of your story.

7. On this special day, just think, you’re not just a year older, but a year better, stronger, and wiser. Keep being the wonderful person you are, and the world will come to you.

8. Happy Birthday! Now that you’re 21, you’re in the driver’s seat of your life. Sure, there might be bumps in the road, but you’ve got the skills to navigate them. Enjoy the journey!

9. Turning 21? It’s a big deal! You’re stepping into a chapter where you get to write the story. Make it a good one, filled with passion, laughter, and dreams that turn into reality.

10. Happy 21st! If I could give you one piece of advice, it’d be this: never underestimate the power of believing in yourself. Your belief is the spark that lights up your path.

Read More: 50 Sweet Happy 2nd Birthday Wishes For Daughter From Parents

Birthday Wishes For Daughter Turning 21

1. Happy 21st Birthday! This is the year you can finally legally do all the things I’ve been pretending you haven’t been doing since 18. Enjoy responsibly!

2. Congratulations on hitting 21! You’re at an age where life starts to make sense, and at the same time, it doesn’t. But that’s the beauty of it. Embrace the confusion and the clarity!

3. On your 21st, remember you’re not just gaining a year, but also wisdom, experience, and the right to legally buy a drink! Cheers to you and the exciting journey ahead.

4. Happy Birthday! At 21, you’re old enough to know better, but still young enough to get away with it. Here’s to making memories that you’ll actually remember!

5. Turning 21 is a major milestone. It’s the age when you can look back at your teenage years and think, “Wow, I really survived that?” Here’s to even more incredible survival stories!

6. Happy 21st Birthday! You’re officially at the age where you can decide your bedtime, and nobody can say anything about it. Enjoy the freedom (and the occasional late night)!

7. On this special day, as you turn 21, remember that age is just a number, but a pretty important one when it comes to things like renting a car. Welcome to new opportunities and adventures!

8. Happy Birthday! At 21, you’re perfectly positioned to leap into adulthood while still clinging onto the joys of youth. Balance is key – and so is cake. Have lots of cake.

9. Congratulations on being 21! It’s the age where you start understanding your own jokes and life starts throwing new ones at you. Keep laughing, and keep growing.

10. On your 21st, here’s a little wisdom: life is too short to not enjoy every moment. You’ve got the whole world at your feet and a lifetime of adventures waiting for you. Go out and live them to the fullest!

Funny 21st Birthday Wishes For Daughter

1. Happy 21st! Now you can legally do all those things that you’ve been… uh, not doing for years. Enjoy, but remember, with great power comes great responsibility and hangovers.

2. Congratulations on turning 21! It’s all fun and games until you actually have to start adulting. Don’t worry, it’s like riding a bike – but the bike is on fire, and so is everything around you.

3. Happy Birthday! At 21, you’re old enough to make your own decisions but still young enough to blame us for your mistakes. Enjoy this loophole while it lasts!

4. 21 years of being fabulous! Remember, aging is mandatory, but growing up is optional. Keep your inner child alive but maybe don’t let it drive for a while.

5. Happy 21st Birthday! You know you’re getting older when the candles cost more than the cake. We went with just two candles this year: a ‘2’ and a ‘1’ to save some cash.

6. On your 21st, remember: you’re not really an adult until you start getting excited about canceled plans. Welcome to the club! It’s less exciting than it sounds.

7. Happy Birthday! At 21, you’re at the perfect age. Old enough to know better, young enough to do it anyway, and rich enough to… well, we’re still working on that part.

8. Congrats on being 21! It’s time to start developing a taste for expensive cheeses and pretending to understand taxes. It’s all about the small victories.

9. Welcome to 21, where you finally understand why your parents were so obsessed with nap time. Spoiler: It’s because naps are awesome. Enjoy your newfound appreciation!

10. Happy 21st Birthday! They say good things come to those who wait. Well, you’ve waited 21 years, and now you’re legally allowed to do something as exciting as renting a car. Thrilling, right

Creative 21st Birthday Card Message For Daughter

1. Happy 21st b-day! It’s like you’ve unlocked the next level in life’s adventure! Keep embracing each moment with your one-of-a-kind charm and passion. So excited to see where your journey takes you next!

2. 21 already – wow! Watching you grow into the caring, creative person you are has been magical. Your spirit lights up this world. Never stop reaching for your dreams out there!

3. Turning 21 means you’re officially awesome! Facing every new challenge with courage and talent like the gem you are. Wishing you laughter and success as wonderful as you!

4. My dear girl, as you turn 21 may this year bring adventures that fill your heart with joy, new friendships, and possibilities around every corner! The world is yours to explore!

5. Happy Birthday to my forever growing and glowing daughter! You keep getting cooler, funnier and smarter every year. Being your mom is a gift. Keep spreading your sparkle!

6. Welcome to 21 – the perfect age for bold dreams, loud laughter and embracing every moment to the fullest! Endless fabulousness and beautiful surprises coming your way!

7. Happiest Birthday, sweetheart! At 21, remember life’s an adventure meant to be savored. Take in all the special moments as you chase every dream!

8. 21 years of you lighting up our lives! Your magic spreads so much joy wherever you go. You can do anything you put your mind to – the possibilities are endless!

9. We’re so proud of the incredible person you’ve become! At 21 you’re only beginning to shine bright. Wishing you a year as bright and beautiful as you!

10. My darling, creative, world-brightening girl is 21 today! Every moment brings new chances for your talents to shine. Dream massively – go dazzle the world! Love you!

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Help with: 21st Birthday Speeches

You never really think about speeches, until you have to do one, and then it’s all that you can think of! For this article, we asked our readers for their advice and help for 21st birthday speeches. Here, we have advice for mothers, brothers and friends who want to say a few words about their loved one on their big day.

A siblings 21st birthday

I need to give a speech on my sister’s 21st birthday, she was born on 5th April 1988, and the party is this Saturday. Do you have any ideas or pointers for me?

Using the birthdate

A good way to start your speech would be to talk about some of the great events that took place in 1988. You could mention what was number one on the day of her birth, and find out what the local and national newspaper headlines were (. Following this you could mention notable events of the year, who was born, what was invented and the top of the charts (Rhianna, Rupert Grint were born, Morrissey released ‘Everyday is Sunday’ and prince released Alphabet Street’), but none of these things were as important as the birth of my sister. Then you could follow on by talking about the keys/events or stories about your sister’s life. For example, what kind of mischief did she get up to? (yes she did eat that, and no it was not a good idea). As a sibling you can roll out some of the slightly more embarrassing and funny stories, and find some pictures to go with them! For my brother’s birthday, I spoke about how I found him (aged 2) sitting on the floor of the kitchen, eating honey straight out of the jar with his hands, and saying “look I’m Winnie the pooh!”

Other things you may talk about could be the weather on that day, the day of the year, what movies were released, and what was on the telly. Answer thanks to Amy P.

Toast to my brother on his 21st

Yorishma asked:

I’m trying to write a toast to my brother on his 21st and I want it to be funny but also special. I’ve read your posts and started by talking about events of the year, and ended with what a wonderful person he has become, but I’m hoping for a quick joke to add some meat to the centre of the toast. Can’t use funny event of his life, because there aren’t very many that you repeat in front of people!

Jokes and one liners

Here are a few that could work: “Artificial intelligence is a wonderful thing. I told my computer that today is my birthday, and it said that I needed an upgrade.” “A true friend remembers your birthday but not your age.” “Growing old is mandatory growing up is optional!”

Here is another one that could work for your brother. If you are older you could put yourself into the joke – if your brother is older you could put him into the joke.

A mother asked her small son what he would like for his birthday. “I’d like a little brother,” the boy said. “Oh my, that’s such a big wish,” the mother said. Why do you want a little brother”? “Well,” said the boy, “There’s only so much I can blame on my dog.” Answer thanks to Doctor.

One to introduce your speech could be: “I mean that the funny events in my brother’s life aren’t ones that I can repeat. So let me tell you about ones that didn’t happen…” Answer thanks to Guest.

A best friends 21st birthday

Bianca asked: 

It is my best friends 21st in November and she has asked me to do a speech. I hate speeches but feel obliged as she is speaking at mine in just over a month. It is a formal sit down dinner with all her family and quite a few of her new friends that I dont know. She has asked me not to tell any stories of us getting into mischief when we were kids, so I am at a loss as to what to say. Many of our other stories only she and I will find amusing. Does any one have any ideas on how I can deliver a speech which is short and funny but wont offend her.

Its a fine line

Its always difficult to be humorous about someone without offending but I’m sure that if you think hard enough there will be a funny story that you can all share.

I recently had to give a speech to thank a number of people for seeing us through a crisis and one particularly funny story involving someone who was attending came to mind. I deliberated for ages on whether I should tell the story and at the last minute as everybody was in a good mood I went for it. Everybody, including the people involved, laughed about it and it became the highlight of the afternoon.

Take a look at speeches on the website in particular those relating to birthdays. Remember keep it short and funny. Good luck

Answer thanks to Helen. 

If you’re really finding it hard to be funny – don’t try. Be sincere – wish her the best for the future, say what a great friend she’s been and keep it short.

Answer thanks to serena. 

Joint 21st birthday speech for twins.

Vikkiy Asked: 

I’ve been reading a few different forums/posts for ideas on how to do a 21st speech for my friends. I don’t want it to be boring or to run way too long! I’ve read about the ‘video speech’, ‘poem speech’ and I really liked the idea of the ‘A- Z about ____’, but the speech is for twins! The two girls are having their birthday on the same night, and I’ve been best friends with both of them for 10 years. I’m really nervous and have no idea how to make it interesting or about the structure to the speech. It’s just hard because I’m doing it for two people at once! Please help me with ideas?!

The structure is the same even if they are twins. Keep the speech under 5 minutes and focus on one characteristic of each daughter. If you want to add humour you can even talk about a character flaw. For example, your daughter is a shopaholic, spends lot of time on the phone etc. Intro: Who you are. Body: A brief story highlighting one character trait about each girl. Conclusion – best bet is to use a good quotation about aging.

Answer thanks to Lief.

Daughter’s 21st speech

Janice asked:

Help! It’s my daughter’s 21st in one month and I need inspiration. It’s a little bit complicated in that her dad and I are divorced 14 years. My ex and I (at his insistence) will be the only two to get up and say something about her and this is where my next stress comes from – what do I say? I’m only 40 myself and quite young for my age so I need something funny and trendy rather than heavy. Can anyone help please?

Don’t mention it 

I think that the best idea would be to keep it short and sweet. Don’t worry about your ex-husband. That is a past phase in your life and one that should have no bearing on your speech. You could look back to the time when you first held her in your arms. You could recount a touching moment from when she was a child, or something nice or sweet that she told you when she was young. You could show one of the certificates or achievements that you were very proud. You could produce a few photos of her as a girl. You then could say that you could never have imagined what a nice girl she has turned out to be. End by proposing a toast – even if this has been done before. At all costs avoid saying anything about the breakup. The key is to write it down and practice it in front of a mirror. Read it out loud at least 4 times and practice in front of a trusted friend or even a work colleague. Don’t get tempted to change the speech on the day. Good luck. I’m sure that it will go well. Answer thanks to Doc.

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A letter to my daughter on her 21st Birthday

As I wake early on this particular day, my heart is bursting with pride. My gorgeous daughter i s now 21! You make me proud in many ways, and I love watching you grow into the beautiful, strong young lady you have become. I say it every year, but I can not believe my baby girl is now a young adult! Another lap around the sun, another year older and another year of loving you.

It feels like yesterday when we found out I was pregnant and the joy in your father’s eye when we were told the baby moving around on the screen was, in fact, a girl. I knew at that moment that you would always be daddy’s little girl. Things haven’t changed much since then, you will always be the apple in his eye, and even when you have children of your own, you will always be daddy’s little girl.

For me, you have always been exceptional; from the first time I laid eyes on you, I knew I had fallen in love, and I knew I felt I needed to protect you forever, even if you and when you no longer need it.

As years have passed, you have developed into a kind-hearted, loyal, considerate friend, caring sister, and loving daughter. You stand up for what you believe in and never shy from competition . Your strong-minded beliefs and passionate energy makes me realise how lucky I am to call you my daughter.

Your huge smile lights up a room, and your infectious laugh ensures everyone around you is along for the ride. So don’t change for anyone! Just keep being you.

Although we may not always see eye to eye, you will always have my support in all that you do. I believe in you, and I look forward to seeing where this journey will take you. So keep reaching for those stars because someday, I know you will get there because you deserve everything that comes your way.

If I could give you three things today, it would be the courage to face all that comes your way, the confidence to love yourself during all stages of your life and the wisdom to understand how much we love you.

So happy 21st birthday to my beautiful, talented, warm-hearted daughter. May today and every day moving forward be full of love and laughter surrounded by those who love you the most.

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Gorgeous words Paula. Sounds like you’re very lucky to have each other!

Wishing you both all the best for a Happy Birthday celebration together.

Thanks, Cat, it is very special to be together during this milestone (as you are well aware). Things we once took for granted are now things we cherish more than ever x

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51+ Best Funny 21st Birthday Wishes, Messages, & Quotes (2024)

Looking for funny 21st birthday wishes ? I am glad that your search has finally come to an end.

In this article, I have written for you some of the best funny 21st birthday wishes, messages, quotes, and captions that you can send.

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Funny 21st Birthday Wishes Messages

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Happy 21st birthday! You are finally a legal adult, and that means you can finally do all the things you weren’t allowed to do before. Drink, party, and have fun! We will join you in all of that.

Happy 21st birthday! I hope you become the most successful adult in the history of adults. Well, not too successful though.

Happy 21st birthday! I know that this is your legal age to drink, but let’s stick with non-alcoholic beverages for today.

Happy 21st birthday! I hope you finally feel like an adult today. Because of how big you are, you will probably have to wait another year for this to happen.

I am so glad that your age doesn’t determine how mature or childish you are. You are the same person at 20 as you were at 21.

Happy 21st birthday! You are finally able to rent a car and drive it on your own. Just be careful not to hit any pedestrians or other cars.

Happy 21st birthday! I’m sure you have been waiting for this day for a long time. And now that you are finally 21, you can finally do all the things that adults are allowed to do.

Happy 21st birthday! It’s time to party like there is no tomorrow! But first, let’s take a few pictures so that we can remember this day forever.

Happy 21st birthday! I am sure that you have been looking forward to this day for a long time. But before you start partying, I have a few words of wisdom for you.

Read: 21st Milestone Birthday Wishes

Happy 21st birthday! Do you feel any different today? No? Don’t worry, it will probably take some more time for this to happen.

Happy 21st birthday! I don’t know about you, but I feel so old now that you are finally 21.

You’re only 21 once, so let’s party like it’s 1999…oh wait, you weren’t even born then. Happy Birthday!

Happy 21st birthday! It’s time to start adulting…or at least pretending to.

21 years old and still no idea what you want to be when you grow up? Don’t worry, you’re not alone.

Happy 21st birthday! May your hangovers be short and your memories be long.

Happy 21st birthday! May your day be as wild and crazy as your future plans.

Happy 21st birthday to the mother of all my best friends. Happy birthday, you old bag.

Happy 21st birthday! Not sure if I should wish for your happiness or mine on this joyous day.

Hey, it’s your 21st birthday! Time to start thinking about moving out and getting a job. Happy Birthday!

Welcome to the wonderful world of being able to legally drink, vote, and get married. Enjoy! Happy 21st Birthday!

Happy 21st birthday! Now that you’re an adult, it’s time for you to start acting like one.

I’m glad you finally made it to the legal drinking age. Here’s to many more years of being your friend. Happy 21st Birthday!

Here’s to hoping that your 21st birthday is as exciting as a root canal.

On your 21st birthday, may you find a way to make all your dreams come true, and may you also find a way to pay for them.

I may be a little old for you to take advice from, but I have been 21 before and it’s pretty great. You should try it!

Happy birthday and congrats on successfully making it through your 20s without becoming an alcoholic who still lives with her parents!

Here’s to hoping that your 21st birthday is as good as a trip to the dentist!

Happy 21st birthday! I hope you have a wonderful day full of all the things that you love. And if you don’t love anything, I hope you find something new.

Happy 21st birthday! You’re finally a legal adult. Now you can drink, vote, and join the military. Just don’t do all three at the same time.

You’re finally old enough to rent a car without being subject to those pesky extra charges. Happy 21st Birthday!

Happy 21st birthday! Enjoy this year while you still can. In just a few years, you’ll be the one dropping your son off at college!

Now that you’re 21, I can legally buy you adult diapers and sit you in front of Spongebob. Happy Birthday!

When we made plans to get together for your birthday, we had no idea we were celebrating during hurricane season. I hope you make it safely to your party! Happy 21st Birthday!

Happy 21st birthday! I’m glad you finally made it to this age. Now you can drink, vote, and sign contracts.

21 years ago, you came into this world kicking and screaming. But now that you’re 21, I’m pretty sure you’re just going to drink and scream.

Happy 21st birthday! I hope this is the beginning of a great year for you. And by great year, I mean you finally get your driver’s license and stop living with us.

Happy 21st birthday! This calls for a celebration – let’s go get wasted and party all night.

21 years old, that’s impressive. You’re probably the best at this age compared to any other person in history. Let’s go out to celebrate your greatness!

Your older brother loves you and wants you to have a great 21st birthday. Drink lots of alcohol, party hard, and stay out of trouble!

I’m so proud of you for being in your 21st year. You have come a very long way since I first met you in diapers! Go grab an alcoholic beverage with the guys tonight and have a blast!

21 years ago, you were born and brought into this world by two loving parents. Today, you’ve decided to enter the adult world on your own. Congratulations!

I don’t think I could have asked for a better sister…well maybe one who isn’t going to try and drink an entire bottle of vodka without help. But hey, I guess you can’t win them all.

I hope you have the most exciting 21st birthday ever! Make sure to drink up, take some party pics for us, and don’t drive anywhere tonight.

You’ve been my sidekick since day one and I couldn’t imagine life without you:) Now that you’re officially a 21-year-old young woman it’s time to party!

Congratulations! You’re now old enough to legally do all the things you’ve already been doing. Happy 21st Birthday!

You can now legally do everything you were already doing illegally for the past three years. Happy 21st Birthday!

You’re not getting older, you’re just leveling up! Cheers to 21 years of being awesome and legal!

Happy 21st birthday! The age when it’s finally acceptable to be drunk at noon.

You can now legally gamble, but be careful not to bet your entire life savings on one hand of blackjack. Happy 21st Birthday!

Wishing you a happy 21st birthday, and may your ID never be questioned.

Happy 21st birthday! Now you can finally buy your own drinks…and regret it in the morning.

You’ve survived 21 years, now let’s see if you can handle the rest. Welcome to adulthood! It’s not as fun as it looks.

I hope after reading this article you have found some of the best funny 21st birthday wishes, messages, quotes, and captions that you can send to your loved ones.

Mohmand holds a Bachelor of Science (B.Sc) Honours Degree from Aston University (UK) and he holds a Masters Degree from The University of Leicester. Mohmand lives in the United Kingdom and loves to write about topics of his interest.

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To my Daughter on her 21st Birthday

Janet Camilleri · 20/11/2017 ·

An Open Letter to My Gorgeous Girl on the Occasion of her 21st Birthday

Dear Julia,

It’s 21 years today since you arrived in the world, much loved and much wanted.

All through my pregnancy I suspected you were a girl, but we waited until you were born to find out for sure.

The Day You Were Born

After an agonising 18 hours in labour (due to posterior presentation) and an epidural to bring your older brother in the world, I was granted my desire for a much speedier and more active labour: just three hours from start to finish. As we were ushered into the birthing suite at the Mater, I saw that it was 6.01pm on the Suncorp clock in the city. You were born at 6.47pm!

Walking around and pelvic rocking really helped with the pain; once I hit transition however I panicked and demanded an epidural, only to be told it was too late – eek! (If only I’d known then about hypnobirthing !)

As soon as you were born however, it was all worth it.

I sank back on the bed, exhausted – but I still didn’t know if you were a boy or girl as nobody thought to tell me! So even though I was feeling weak and queasy after a fast labour and delivery , I sat up to lift the umbilical cord myself – and found that you were indeed, a baby girl.

The midwife asked what your name would be, and your dad explained that we weren’t quite sure but the current favourite was “Julia”. The midwife gestured at her name tag and grinned widely, saying, “I think that’s a wonderful name!”

Yep, you guessed it, her name was Julia. You were born so quickly we hadn’t even had a chance to talk to her before that!

I was overjoyed to be the mother of two children – a gorgeous little boy and now, a baby girl.

Your dad took several weeks off when you were born, which helped to ease us into our new family life, and you quickly settled into a routine of feed, wake time, sleep – every three or so hours.

You gave me a lovely Christmas present – that night you slept through from your 10.30 pm feed until 10 til 7 the next morning!

You cut your first tooth when you were 5 months old, started crawling at 7 1/2 months, and were walking at 10 months. After that, there was no stopping you … you adored your big brother and he was quite taken with you, too 😉 .

As a toddler you very definitely had a mind of your own (some things never change!).

You hated being confined to your stroller when we were out! And you didn’t like to wear shoes either. In desperation, I bought you a pair of silver mary janes – they were sparkly so I thought we would have better luck with you actually keeping them on, and I was right 😉 . And in summer, you had your pretty “rainbow shoes” instead.

We used to call you the Queen of Tantrums, and I very quickly learned to schedule errands and outings around your short fuse. At first I knew I had an hour before you lost the plot, but it became less and less, until all I had to do was set foot in the bank or the shops and all hell would break loose!

There was nothing I could do but pick you up (kicking, thrashing and screaming – you, not me, that is!), put you in the car and drive home. You would scream so much when I put you in time out in your room, that I’m sure the neighbours wondered what was going on!

Once you turned 2, you started going to daycare one day a week while your brother was at kindy, which gave me a chance to do errands in peace.

And yet – you were an absolute delight too. You had a real zest for life, and a gorgeous cheeky smile and giggle. You loved being cuddled, and you especially loved your mama, and would follow me everywhere, my devoted shadow.

From an early age I learned the way to handle the 5 o’clock horrors was to pop you in your high chair, and get you to “help” me cook dinner – and you have loved to cook, ever since.

When you were about 3 or 4 I thought about going back to work and even applied for a job at your brother’s school – which I didn’t get. But as I held your hand and walked back to the car after school drop off, I realised just how happy I was that I could be at home with my girl for just a bit longer.

You have always been a social butterfly, and loved company, having people over or going out, which remains true today.

Your School Years

Do you remember how I used to pretend to be “Ze French Hairdresser” when I would do your hair for school each morning?!

You enjoyed primary school, making friends easily, and pleasing your teachers with your attitude and efforts. You loved the great outdoors, and animals of any sort. For a while you adopted the blue tongue lizard which lived under the hot water system, wrapping him in a towel and bringing him inside to “watch TV”!

In hindsight though, I wish we’d held you back a year before sending you to school. It wasn’t fair to place you with peers that were a year older, not so much academically, but rather socially. It didn’t particularly matter at primary school but I think this made high school more difficult for you.

Even though we were close, the teenage years weren’t particularly easy. But I always had faith that you would come good, because I knew that deep inside you had a beautiful heart – and just look at you now!

You always said you wanted to move out when you turned 18, so it shouldn’t have come as any surprise when you did. My heart broke a little that day, I wasn’t ready for it at all.

And yet – you have proven yourself over the last three years, working and supporting yourself, cooking and looking after your “crib”, travelling overseas. You’ve even become a mum yourself to your precious fur babies!

Your employers are always impressed with your good work ethic, and you are always willing to help. You have a caring nature, and a tender and generous heart. Oh, and you are a lot smarter than you think you are – trust me – a mama knows these things.

I loved it when you told me earlier this year that you wanted to find a man who treated you as well as your dad treats me – and I couldn’t agree more, because you are SO worth it!

I am so thrilled that you have grown up to be not just my daughter, but one of my best friends. I never got to experience the joy of a mother-adult daughter relationship with my own mum, so it is doubly precious to have that with you.

In many ways you are still finding your feet, but I know that whatever the future holds, you will approach it with gusto and enthusiasm.

Your Dad and I are so proud of you, happiest of birthdays to our darling girl.

lots of love Mama xxx

Reader Interactions

20/11/2017 at 9:40 am

What a beautiful post Janet and I just loved all the photos. Our children grow up so fast don’t they. My son turns 35 today. He is my youngest and I still remember him in pre-school. Your daughter is gorgeous and you have obviously done a great parenting job. Happy 21st birthday!

24/11/2017 at 5:56 pm

Thank you Sue, I can’t believe that’s it, they are both officially adults now! And I can’t believe your youngest is 35 – surely you are not old enough!

20/11/2017 at 10:56 am

That was lovely Janet – your pride and love for Julia shines through from pregnancy to the last word. I’m so glad you have with her what you missed out on with your own Mum. Mother/daughter relationships can be turbulent and it’s nice to see you weathering the ups and downs with so much love and understanding. Happy birthday Julia! x

24/11/2017 at 5:57 pm

I feel very blessed Leanne x

20/11/2017 at 11:55 am

Aww this made me get a lump in my throat. Such a beautiful tribute to your girl on her 21st birthday. I Julia has a wonderful birthday. She has done you both proud.

Thanks Kathy, it’s stuff she already knows but I wanted to record it here for posterity. Of course then Mr 23 wanted to know when he would be getting HIS letter on the blog … 😉

20/11/2017 at 3:31 pm

Happy birthday, Julia! I just love the way you have described your mother daughter relationship over the years. It moved me to read about tricky teenage years and the faith that all would come good – reminds me of my mum and I. I know one day I will ask her for all the advice in the world when my daughter (due in Feb) and I reach that tricky phase – trust me – we will if she is anything like me or even her dad haha.

24/11/2017 at 5:59 pm

I’m so excited you are having a girl to complement your son! Our kids are firm friends today though there were some times they weren’t so keen on each other in the early teens. I think they bonded over ganging up on us (the parents)!

20/11/2017 at 5:44 pm

Aww what a beautiful letter to your daughter which made me go all weepy. When they are growing up its sometimes hard to count all our blessings and understand just how special all those moments and all those days were and also how loved and treasured they are and why. I hope Julia treasures this… I’m sure she will. Happy 21st Julia!!!

Thanks Jo, I should have posted a warning to have the tissues ready!

20/11/2017 at 8:51 pm

Beautiful words and photos. Happy 21st to Julia!

Thank you Ness x

21/11/2017 at 2:17 am

I think I’ve mentioned it before, but Julia was my favorite name for my own Miss 21. We adopted her at 18 months and had decided that if we didn’t really like her name, we’d change it to her middle name. But she’s a Rachel for sure (Rachie, Rachie Rach, Rachie Pachie, The Rachinator lol). Our girls sound an awful lot alike too <3 The happiest of birthdays Julia!

24/11/2017 at 6:00 pm

Thank you Denise! Up until I was about 6 months pregnant I really wanted to call her Chelsea. But then a friend got a dog and named her, you guessed it, Chelsea, so I had to find something else!

21/11/2017 at 9:37 am

Beautiful … Happy Birthday Julia, and thanks for sharing the open letter Janet. What a beautiful, true, unfolding story. Lots of love to you both xx

It’ll be your turn before you know it Liz!

21/11/2017 at 8:52 pm

What a beautiful post Janet! Many memories in that! Our first granddaughter will be 21 just before Christmas! Time flies. Happy Birthday Julia!

Oh wow it sure does! x

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